You and Me Equals We: The Counter-intuitive Path to a Stable Shalom Bayis by Rabbi Yisrael Kleinman
Shalom Bayis needs more than just giving in.
Being mevater is a beautiful ideal, one for which every Jew can and should strive. Marriage would be a non-stop battle if we insisted on always getting our way. Indeed, couples who can graciously and sincerely concede to the other's needs possess a master key to harmony.
However, vatranus or more accurately, a superficial simulation of this trait can also mask and sometimes trigger deep and profound problems in a marriage.
Is your go-to strategy of giving in producing negative or dangerous side-effects in your marriage? Ask yourself some questions:
Do you feel controlled by your spouse?
Are there many things you refrain from saying to your spouse for fear of his/her reaction?
Do you feel that you give and give and get very little in return?
Would your spouse be surprised to find out what you really feel and think?
Are you unable to enjoy life and feel good about yourself when your spouse is down on you?
Are you unable to enjoy life and feel good about yourself when your spouse is down on you
For most couples, and virtually all couples that are unhappy, giving in simply does not cover every area of conflict.
Only an angel can constantly acquiesce without feeling defeated.
Fortunately, tools exist that can enable you to establish yourself as a separate individual whose hands are on the controls of your own emotional life. You can exist and thrive as a couple, even in a state of disagreement, even in a state of conflict, even when one of you is occasionally unhappy with the other. You and Me Equals We is about those tools and how to use them.
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